A Heartfelt Goodbye to Maizy: Remembering My Best Friend

My beloved West Highland Terrier, Maizy Gurley, crossed the Rainbow Bridge early one recent morning. I held her in my arms as she peacefully departed, surrounded by the love and care of her friends and co-caregivers, Alan Vosburg and Rebecca Rowland Barnes. Her Uncle Larry Hendricks, our vet, neighbor, and dear friend, was there to help her cross over, ensuring her transition was serene and filled with love.

The morning Mike died,  I asked Maizy to give me one more week. In her gentle and understanding way, she honored my request, allowing me the grace to cope with my grief. I am immensely grateful for that precious time.

I rescued Maizy about ten years ago from Real Good Dog Rescue. Found wandering the streets of Jackson, TN, she was a small 14-pound bundle of resilience, battling heartworms, a damaged eye, and the loss of most of her teeth. Despite her rough start, Maizy thrived and was estimated to be around 13 years old. Her love for people was boundless, touching the lives of our friends.

Almost two years ago, Maizy was diagnosed with Westie Lung Disease, a condition that typically kills affected dogs within 11 months. Thanks to Larry’s exceptional medical care, Maizy defied the odds and graced us with her presence for nearly two years. Every day with her was a cherished gift.

Rescuing Maizy was one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. Her various nicknames—Sister, Maizetta, Maizy Carol, Queen, MayMay, Angel Dog, and more—reflected her many roles in my life. She was my best friend, shadow, and comfort through countless trying times. The bond we shared was profound, and I will miss her terribly.

To anyone considering adding a pet to their family, I urge you to consider rescue. Saving a dog may not change the world, but it certainly changes the world for that one dog. The love and companionship they offer are immeasurable.

Finding Support in Times of Pet Loss

Losing a pet can be as heartbreaking as losing a human loved one. The grief is real and profound, and it’s essential to find support during this difficult time. Here are some resources to help you cope with the loss of a beloved pet:

  1. Pet Loss Support Hotlines: Many organizations offer hotlines specifically for pet loss survivors. The ASPCA, for instance, provides a Pet Loss Hotline for pet owners.
  2. Online Support Groups: Websites like Rainbow Bridge and Pet Loss Support offer online forums and support groups where you can connect with others who understand your pain.
  3. Books and Articles: Reading about pet loss can provide comfort. Books like “Goodbye, Friend: Healing Wisdom for Anyone Who Has Ever Lost a Pet” by Gary Kowalski can be very soothing.
  4. Local Support Groups: For information on support groups in your area, check with your local veterinary clinic or humane society.
  5. Therapists and Counselors: If your grief feels overwhelming, consider speaking with a therapist who specializes in pet loss.

Maizy, you were the best dog ever. I will see you at the Rainbow Bridge, Maizy Carol Gurley. Your love and companionship will forever be in my heart.