Live Fully Now: What People in Their 70s and 80s Want Us to Know About Living

I read an article this week about what people in their 70s and 80s wish they had done differently, and let me tell you, the advice is worth listening to. If we’re lucky enough to make it to their stage of life, we’ll have decades of wisdom and experiences to reflect on.

But rather than wait until then, let’s learn from those who’ve walked the path ahead of us. Our 50s and 60s aren’t the end of the road—they’re just the beginning of what could be our best years yet. It’s the perfect time to redefine our lives, our health, and our happiness. The best parts of life? They’re still out there, waiting for us. So, let’s take a moment and listen to what those in their 70s and 80s are saying—they’ve lived through decades of work, family responsibilities, and juggling it all. Now, they’re sharing what really matters.

1. Don’t Wait for the “Big Day” to Start Living

We’ve all been there, living for the next thing: the next promotion, the next vacation, the next “perfect” moment when we can finally relax. And then one day we look up, and poof—it’s gone. People in their 70s and 80s are telling us: Stop waiting for the “perfect day” to start living fully. Start now. Whether it’s taking that long-awaited trip, trying something new, or just carving out time to rest and recharge, there’s no time like the present.

In my case, I’m the queen of “I’ll do it after the next trip.” I always use travel as my motivation to get into workout mode. I have a trip coming up—boom, it’s time to get stronger. But once I’m strong enough, that trip is my reward, and I live for it! I get so energized by it that I know I’m living fully because I’m taking action now, not waiting for some future “perfect” moment.

How to Start Now: Take a weekend getaway, sign up for that painting class you’ve always wanted to try, or spend a few hours a week doing something that makes you feel alive. Life is happening now—don’t wait for retirement to enjoy it.

2. Spend More in the Early Years of Retirement (Seriously)

Here’s a juicy tidbit: spend more now—especially in the early retirement years. You heard that right. People in their 70s and 80s tell us they played it safe early on and regret it. They were so focused on saving that they didn’t spend enough on experiences—travel, hobbies, things that truly enrich their lives. They were too worried about having “enough” that they missed out on the fun parts of life.

As for me, I work closely with my financial advisor to ensure my travel dreams don’t put me in the poor house! I budget for it, plan for it, and then spend it because I know these memories are worth far more than the money. My trips, my adventures—they’re worth every penny. And you know what? Spending on experiences has brought me much more joy than I ever expected.

How to Start Now: Start today by investing in your happiness. Travel. Treat yourself to a course you’ve wanted to take. Spend the money to create memories and experiences that will last far longer than material things.

3. Invest in Your Health Now for a Better Tomorrow

Health isn’t just about avoiding illness; it’s about being strong enough to live your best life—now and later. Many retirees look back and wish they’d taken better care of themselves earlier. Sure, they worked hard, but their bodies and minds didn’t always keep up with them.

I’ll be honest—I’m working on this. I don’t have the perfect workout routine yet, but I know I need to become more consistent. My trips constantly motivate me. When I have a big adventure coming up, I get super serious about my fitness because I know that staying strong allows me to enjoy my travels to the fullest. Health is the ultimate investment in living life on your terms.

How to Start Now: Start with small steps—take a walk, eat something healthy today, or take a mental break to recharge. When you prioritize your health, you’re setting yourself up to experience all the adventures you’re dreaming of—now and for years to come.

4. Create Meaning Beyond Your Work

Many retirees look back and realize they spent so much time focusing on their career that they forgot to focus on what makes life truly meaningful. When they retired, they felt lost, unsure of who they were without their job title. Here’s the kicker: Don’t wait until your career ends to start figuring this out. Start building meaning now. Whether it’s through relationships, hobbies, or giving back to the community, creating purpose beyond work will set you up for a fulfilling future.

When I left my long career in communications, I threw myself into my passions—writing, painting, photography, and of course, this blog. My focus on aging women’s stories is not just about a career; it’s about living a meaningful life after work and continuing to evolve. This blog is my opportunity to share what I’ve learned, and it brings me joy to know it helps others, too.

How to Start Now: Start thinking about what gives you purpose. Start that side project, write that book, or get involved in a cause that excites you. Building meaning today will enrich your life now, not just in the future.

5. Stay Connected with Younger Generations

One of the most common pieces of advice from older generations? Don’t shut yourself off from younger people. As we get older, it’s easy to start sticking with our own age group, but intergenerational connections bring fresh ideas, energy, and perspectives. Unfortunately, too many retirees regret not connecting with younger people while they were still working or even after they retired. These relationships keep you curious, engaged, and provide opportunities to learn, share, and grow.

How to Start Now: Build relationships with younger generations. Mentor someone at work, volunteer in a community group, or just reach out to younger family members. Trust me, you’ll learn more than you think—and they’ll appreciate the wisdom you share. Remember: it’s not just about giving, it’s about growing together.

6. Stay Engaged with Technology

Raise your hand if technology intimidates you. Don’t worry, you’re not alone. But here’s the thing: many retirees look back and wish they’d kept up with technology. Technology isn’t just about knowing how to use a smartphone; it’s about staying connected, informed, and engaged with the world. People who stayed curious about tech often found that it kept them active and involved in ways that enhanced their lives.

How to Start Now: Start small. Pick up a new app or gadget. Take an online course. Whether you’re staying connected with family through video calls or learning how to manage your finances digitally, becoming tech-savvy will keep you engaged and make life even more enjoyable.

Shaping the Future, You Want Now

The future isn’t something that “happens” when we retire. We shape it now. Whether it’s making time for ourselves, prioritizing our health, or spending money on experiences, it’s all about the choices we make today. The people in their 70s and 80s have shared their wisdom, and it’s up to us to act on it. Let’s not wait for the “perfect time”—because it’s already here. Whether it’s investing in our health, spending more on the things that matter, or living with purpose, the time to act is now.

So, what are you waiting for? Start living, investing, and evolving today. Your future self will thank you.